Weddings

My wife and I attended our second wedding for the year this weekend. The first one was in October. When we were in our middle to late twenties we had plenty of weddings to attend, but we are now in a period where most are already married. Looking forward to some specific weddings in the future, hopefully the near future.

Now weddings, and more specifically marriage, is an institution of God. It was His decision that man should not be alone and thus He created Eve. He also proclaim marriage to be holy, and to be kept holy, thus there is no space for a third party. It can only be You, your partner and God. The husband to be the head, but that does not mean that he is a ruler. God should be. As husband me and you should be plugged in to Him.

What makes weddings special is that you know that it is a fresh start in mostly young peoples lives. It takes a lot of planning to make that day perfect, although it all never works out perfectly. The wedding we attended yesterday had a lot of potential to be a flop, but worked out beautifully, almost like it was planned that way. Brides always look pretty and relaxed, while the groom dresses up and look stressed standing at the front. As soon as she appears the groom relaxes and a smile appears: at last, thank you!

In the Bible there is plenty regarding weddings and marriage. Matthew 22:1 Gods Kingdom is like a king throwing a banquet for his son.

As for marriage, its a lifelong commitment, that is a discussion on its own...

Giving our lives over to God is the same as a marriage, with the same values. A commitment to be upheld

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